they fight, they breakup..they kiss,they makeup..

kasih..

i tried to search meaning of kasih..cuz i want to define and differ kasih, sayang, cinta..
but i'm too lazy to search gila'ly..not even try to click the NEXT button in search result page..

oh wutever...

fights..i hate fights..cuz in fights it's hard to keep the topic in one range only..one topic always leads to another..and leads to another..and another topic will always leads to 'the PAST mistakes' and the miserablity became double! that's the get 1 free 1 i hate the most..

we've discussed bout this before u know..
we really sux big time in art of fighting..sampai nak fight kene buat rules of fighting!
macam...
-always focus on current issue

-no bad words..no bad mouthing each other

-stay calm & not making silly faces (which is hard for me..:P)

-absolutely no raising voices

-delete any intention of hurting the other one

-if one of u gets d previleges in fighting like..being sulky,not talking or only using short sentences,not calling nor txting,not smiling..then the other one automatically,compulsorily have to react the opposite of every aspect mentioned before..

-do not use their past mistake to defend ur ground..cuz that will lead to other issue..remember!!! current issues only

-discuss matters when both of u already calm down..

-do not use threat..especially on wanting to break up..some day it may bcome so freaking lame and unscary duhhh~

-use the idea of lost-lost..so there's no need to defend ourselves nor trying to knock the other one down..kaann ;)

-if possible..avoid fighting using IM,,SMS etc..the best way is face to face..second best is thru the phone..less misunderstanding i tell you kan..sbb we might misread the tone of the phrase..

-if u have to IM or SMS..try this : add cute,warm,funny,friendly,goofy etc. words at the end of phrase..mcm..

instead.."kan da cakap,tanak dengar"
try to say.."tuu laaa yang..kan da cakap, tanak dengar''..
or..''nyehnyehnyeh..da cakap tanak dengar ooooo"..
or..''kan da ckp,tanak dengar ;p''

-try not to change or delete the 'mesra' names like honeybee,baby,buchuk,anje just because ur pissed of

-try not to skip the usual wishes like.."love u".."gudnite n switdrim'' cuz it will hurt the other one

..lagi..

..dah..cannot think of any more..next time maybe?? ;) ;)